Approach things and people from a softly-softly angle. You will get better results by using tact, understanding, empathy, friendship and love than by using aggression.
Try to see things from the viewpoint of others. Have a pure intention for the outcome. Avoid force as that will not work for you.
Be clear in what you want to achieve and be mindful of the outcomes of other people, so that you can bring about a situation where everyone wins.
You have the inner strength to overcome any challenge.